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  • The Three Faces: Staying Alive to Your Life and Your Speaking
  • Calling All Voices: Four Questions to Reveal the Message Written in Your Soul
  • The Transformative Power of Place: See the Change!
  • The Four Bones of a Transformational Speech
  • Holy Fool's Day Coming Right Up!
  • Your Soul is Rooting for You
  • Real Speaking Transforming in 2010 + new view on fear of speaking
  • The TED Commandments
  • Responsibility for Your Impact
  • Has Your Message Chosen You?
  • The Bachelor, The Dumpee, and The Rest of the Story
  • 2009: The Best Year Ever for Your Voice to be Heard (Free call on Jan. 13)
  • Gifts that Keep on Giving: Your Story & Your Spare Parts!
  • The Alchemy of Change: Applying Obama's "Secret" to Your Speaking
  • My Experience with Book Publishing: It Takes a Village
  • Do It Your Way: 12 Principles to Build Your Business With Speaking
  • Body Rules! Extreme Cherishment of Your Precious, Worthy Self
  • 7 Tips to Brand Yourself a Pro
  • Seven Principles of Learning Another Way To Be - applied to speaking anxiety
  • Activism + Artistry: Speaking Out for Change
  • Keynoting: An Art Form Unto Itself
  • Demo Video Tapes: Assuring Your Best Shot
  • Writing a Program Description That Sells
  • Using Your Breath to Gain Focus & Calm Before Speaking
  • Presidentially Speaking
  • Holy Fool's Day Coming Right Up!

    I’ve taken it upon myself to rename April Fool’s Day. This festive holiday suggests we play tricks on others with a jovial spirit and once we’ve duped them to yell with delight, “April Fools!”

    Comparative mythologist Joseph Campbell talked about the archetype of another kind of fool: the Holy Fool. The Fool is the most dangerous person on earth, Campbell explained, the most threatening to all hierarchical institutions. He has no concern for naysayers, and no one has power over him (or her). She is not limited, not stoppable, nor controllable. She knows what she has to do and is doing it, no matter what.

    I think of the Holy Fool as similar to the Court Jester, the only person in the Royal Court who dares to make fun of the King without consequence. Or the Koshari of the Hopi and Pueblo peoples of the Southwest, who in the midst of sacred ceremonies makes us laugh at ourselves by mimicking our behavior so we can see ourselves in a new way.. This “sacred clown” creates lessons at the expense of another’s seriousness, recognizing that laughter is a great shape shifter of old habits and patterns. I often wonder if the striped ceremonial dress of the Koshari isn’t designed to remind us that getting out of our self-imposed jails isn’t a really good idea.

    So here’s a suggestion. How about on April 1 we engage in a dialogue with our inner Holy Fool and ask what she most wants to express, convention be damned. Ask where you are being duped day in and day out and not shining the light of your truth. Let’s stop concealing our greatest passions and be willing to say what we love and what we know without editing and rehearsing ourselves into oblivion. Let’s declare April 1 Holy Fools’ Day and engage the passionate part of us that has something important to say - and just say it!

    Rumi said (and I paraphrase):

    I used to be like you.
    Calm, rational, controlled.
    Now I am seized by passion.
    Watch out!
    No one’s safe!!!

    Our world is changing, one voice at a time, and yours is needed. To inspire yourself, visit http://www.fouryearsgo.org/ , view some of the possibilities we can individually and collectively influence, and add your voice.

    I’d love to hear what happens when you connect with your Holy Fool and say what is yours to say. Speaking your truth, especially when convention is expected, opens not only the door to your liberation but also to the world we want to dream into being. You might just find you want to be a Holy Fool every day!

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